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CLIENT TESTIMONIALS

"IT’S NOT WHAT THEY SAY ABOUT YOU THAT DEFINES YOU.

IT’S WHAT YOU SAY ABOUT YOURSELF THAT TRULY MATTERS."

If you can give yourself one gift in life it would be to have one session with James. Once you have one session, you will most likely need more, but it will start you on the path to becoming the best version of yourself. The difference in me is night and day. After three years (although I’ll always have work to do), I am at peace, spiritually aligned, earning more than ever before and wake up grateful daily. When I first called James, I was crying down the phone about a job I hated, a relationship that was highly toxic and life issues I addressed in a rather emotionally hectic way. Now I've done the work with James, when "life" happens, I handle it all in such a healthy calm way. It’s like magic. Becoming the best version of yourself comes with hard work, finding your true self and self-love. It’s hard but with James’s guidance, your life will be so incredible. I can’t explain how much. It’s like a light goes on, a switch is flicked and you will never look back.

Zoe Upson

From the very 1st session James helped me change not only my mindset, but my whole life. Thanks to him and his wise words I started believing in myself again. Thanks to him I took the courage to leave the company I used to work for and start chasing my dream! Thanks to him I gained peace and freedom in my life and gained a better understanding about the meaning of success. Thanks to him I’m living a beautiful life full of love, peace and abundance. I will forever be thankful. Don’t think words can really express what you did for me 🥺 Thank you, thank you, thank you!

Shirley Torres

Why can I say about this man???? Not many words can express my opinion!!!! We first started talking in October 2018 And what I say is the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth! James instigated the saving of my marriage!!! 100% no messing!!!! Now I’m no uncertain terms misunderstand, I absolutely adored my wife, and still do........... she was and still is my queen! The mother of my children, my prop when I was down etc......... unfortunately she was incredibly unhappy, not so much with me but with many other things she carried for a long time, things she had bottled up. unfortunately this led to a very unhappy home life for me & after a breakdown myself and the struggles of life I had 99.9% made the decision I was ending my marriage. I had enough, I was miserable it wasn’t a life I wanted to live! I hadn’t met James at this point only spoke on Instagram. He told me in no uncertain terms I needed to WAIT ‘I respect marriage too much for you to give up just yet’. Them words struck strong................ I had to fight! This woman is the most beautiful woman to walk the planet. She propped me up when I fell and I needed to help her not run away like a coward. It was my time to step up!!! After battling until January 2019 I finally got my wife to agree to an appointment! The time and date was set and in that afternoon the change in our life was unimaginable! Attitudes changed and after years and laying things out we started that climb to happiness! James is unbelievable, I have reccomended him to many and continue to do so! In April 2019 my wife was diagnosed with cancer! I’m incredibly grateful to say she has so far beaten it and is coming up to a year clear. But I am under no illusion whatsoever if we hadn’t seen James then it could have been a very different story, if her attitude was as it was then her battle would have been much different. I cannot sing cabs praises enough and I will be forever indebted to him. Although I know he will completely disagree. The man literally turned my life around. I will never as long as I breathe forget that Thankyou ❤️❤️❤️

Tom Stubbings

James is just an AMAZING individual and natural Life Coach. This was the best decision which I made for myself; focusing on investing in me and having sessions with this incredible Life Coach. Looking back, I came across James’s Instagram via someone else’s page and started to follow him. He intrigued me with his daily motivational posts, which are truly insightful and supportive. Watching his posts made me feel like he knew me and as though he was talking directly to me. However, I was so reluctant to admit that I needed further help to get my mind and life in a better place and what I required were one to sessions with him. I reached out to James and he responded to me incredibly quickly, that is something that he is surely good at. He then arranged my first session- I was so nervous, but this was by far, one of the best decisions I had made. Choosing to work with James was a big decision and investment for me, the connection was instant; he has an infectious personality and his energy is just great. I felt confident that he would be able to support me. In my life, I have always been so focused on my career and whilst doing so, I had abandoned my personal life. James’s saying “What you feed grows and what you ignore dies”, has resonated with me deeply. He has helped me to challenge my thinking, get my mind right and focus my energy on me. I’m still on my journey of putting me first and I love the challenges and homework that James gives me at the end of every session. He has helped me to redefine my priorities and to make massive strides towards a more fulfilling career and life. James uses his life experiences to support me and his strategies are hugely effective. I thoroughly look forward to every session booked with James and appreciate the time he gives. As a person; he is easy to talk to, an excellent listener, is very honest and does not judge you. He is incredibly funny, kind and charismatic. He is very professional and his attention to detail is second to none- he never forgets anything you said, even when you have. He is always well prepared for the sessions and cares hugely for his clients. He has this passion for helping people. At the end of my sessions, I leave feeling excited and empowered with the tools to make good decisions about my life. My experience with James as my Life Coach is a phenomenal one. He is an absolute blessing in my life and I’m loving the journey that I’m on. I am seriously amazed by the results so far and know that this journey is still continuing. I honestly cannot imagine my life without having him as my Life Coach. I would highly recommend James to anyone who would like to enhance and improve their life. Just be ready to go on the XTLC journey of a lifetime! James - you are truly appreciated! Thank-you so much for your continued support, time and guidance.

Emma Campbell

Hey Xav, Just wanted to check in with you it’s been 6 weeks since our last chat, guess what life’s absolutely amazing, absolutely everything is clicking in to place money’s chasing me and that vision board is getting full and had the opportunity to remove two things off it, the wife and my family are seeing some one who’s always got a smile on my face now when ever there in my company and not consumed with work. we just found our forever home, don’t get me wrong I’m still making excuses about the smoking though 😂😂 but I’m forever blessed that YOU come in to my wonderful life.

Joe Salter

hello Xav it’s your scottish mate with the two second names lol we’re do i start here...firstly i was recommend your instagram page and secondly lucky enough to have your time and knowledge personally throw facetime as co void19🙄was in full swing! Got. great vibes and clicked straight away and never felt judged which really helped as this was my first time opening up and i’m in my 30s and coming from a background were i was told for years “just get on with it”....got to the bottom of the issues and also broke it down to me which made sense and helped me to work on day to day for the family! can’t thank you enough also had me laughing aswell as learning on the facetime there’s not many like yourself Xav you got me hocked on the cornflakes and warm milk tune now for life lol More life to your brother and your team stay on they scooters and keep it Skkkrrtttttttt

Campbell Mclean

James has been the best thing for me in 2020 so far. I have always had ups and downs and struggled in life very quickly. I spent 24 years trying different traditional therapists and it was not working. He changed my outlook and perspective on things challenging the way I think in 3 months. I don’t spiral anymore and I am so so much happier, which affects everyone around me. I cannot recommend James enough.

Graziella Jeffery

First of all, I’d love to thank James for changing my perspective in the way I think about life and the opportunities I’m given on a daily basis. Changing the perspective of the way you think and shifting the negatives into the positives have never been so easier after my first video call. Since then, James and I have had a few video calls where he has guided me through situations I thought were hopeless; showing me what could have been done, therefore changing the outcome. Taking that into mind, I have now taken the steps advised and lived a much healthier and happier life. It doesn’t take a while to realise the small things you have been doing which have subconsciously affected your thinking negatively with James’s daily updates/inspirations in the morning. I would definitely recommend XTLC to anyone who may be struggling/unsure what to do, or anyone who feels like they need to talk open minded to an individual, James is the right person for you!

Patrick Ellameh

I was fortunate enough to stumble across James when he was a panellist at The Man Talk. I immediately followed him on Instagram and watched his stories everyday! Having had a few “therapists” over the years I had really given up hope, but watching his stories was almost like he was addressing me and knew what I was going through. So I reached out and am so pleased I did!!! He has massively helped me see the bright side of the recent breakup of a four year intense relationship. One thing I will say is he is very transparent with what to expect which is “challenging your thoughts”. A yes man he is not! So do expect to be challenged and made to think, it may seem a little uncomfortable at first but who cares if it works! From me to you, thank James!

Pascal Santa Maria

Everyone needs an James In their life. We’ve only had a handful of sessions, and each session has empowered me and helped me stay on track with my direction in life. Each session has showed me sides to me I never knew I had, instilled confidence and belief in me i doubted, and forced me to look in the mirror in the most beautiful way. I started becoming so much more content because of this. James more than just a life coach, one of the most beautiful souls I’ve ever met in my life. Just seeing his face brightens up the day, and hearing his words does genuinely change your life and the strategies he asks you to implement to better yourself and get your mind right. James, you are one in a infinity. Thank you for coming into my life. Here’s to forever.

Asia Sharif

I came across James via one of Wayne Linekers instagram posts. Wayne made the bold claim that he was the “best life coach on the planet” (only one way to find out i guess). I figured if he can keep someone like Wayne on the straight and narrow, he can surely help me. After the first meeting (face to face) i was blown away…. Id never been challenged like that, ever! It had me wandering around Hammersmith for about an hour not knowing what to do with myself, yet at the same time feeling so much clarity. Needless to say I've been using him ever since, and even though I'm back to my old happy winning self again, I still see the value and benefit in speaking to James from time to time, just to keep my mind in the right place! Highly recommend….. James changed my life, for the better! Wayne was right after all!

Darren Matthews

I hope my testimonial below will contribute to your website. I have followed you on Instagram for a few years now (@Mrs_W_XX) and I can’t thank you enough for your ongoing advice and the time and dedication to offering support through your platform for people like me. I started following James at a difficult point in my life. I had lost direction, confidence and didn’t know where my life’s path was headed. James’s advice and ability to help me question my own thought process has been invaluable. To understand that it’s ok to put me first and not feel selfish. To practice gratitude daily And feel amazing and blessed with everything and everyone I have around me. I never knew I needed a life coach but I’m so glad I found one. My life today is so different and I thank James for inspiring me daily and for always being there. He has definitely got me! Thank you James and good luck with your forthcoming website. I have no doubt it will be a huge success and a great source of comfort to many.

Sara Williams

So after watching James on Instagram...I knew I had to reach out to him. His straight talking, soul searching methods and authenticity spoke volumes to me AND I HADN’T EVEN MET HIM YET! He made time for me...and the first time I saw him for a session...I literally wept. I’ve worked within the care industry for over 20 years and I’ve never met anyone like him. James is raw with his truth and made sure I was raw with mine so I could unleash the power already within me. James has an innate ability to see through you and help you to make the changes necessary. Thanks to him I went on start my business and move mountains within me. I still apply what he taught me in my life today and am grateful for that.

Poonam Sandhu

I was new and skeptical to having a life coach. I felt as if I didn’t really need one, or did I. The reality for me is that it was great being able to talk to someone that hasn’t got a hidden agenda, doesn’t know where you’ve been, who you use to be, or jealous of where you’re going. The harsh reality of today’s world is that most, if not all people have some kind of agenda, which leaves you open and vulnerable. I was able to trust Xav, fully. I felt comfortable in telling/venting to Xav knowing he would be honest, he would get me thinking from a different perspective. If I was to find myself in a situation, or needed to discuss areas of my life, it would be Xav that I would feel most comfortable talking to before anyone else, before my family and closest friends. You don’t have to have mental health issues, but you should be able to talk when you need it most, after all, life is a rollercoaster.

Ashley Roberts

Dear Xav, been a minute but I saw your post so wanted to share my little testimony for your site if you choose to use it. I was very sceptical at first about meeting Xav as I’ve tried many different things in the past to help with the struggles I had, however meeting Xav was the best thing I’ve ever done. He has completely changed my life just by making me change the way I look at things and challenge my thoughts. He doesn’t sugar coat anything, he tells you how it is and I needed that. I’ve met with him a few times now and it’s honestly the best money and hour of my time I’ve spent. I saw a massive change from the shy, timid boy who sat not really saying anything in our first meeting to the confident, sat up tall, speaking aloud man who was taking charge of his life by our most recent meeting. I can’t thank Xav enough for all he has done, I will be forever grateful.

Jack Gage

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